Ok, so this is a hard choice for me. I have a handful of great friends but, I have thought it out and decided to write a letter to my best friend Jes. She has been my friend the longest so she wins this one. So here it goes:
J2theK (thats what I call her)
I have known you for so long. I feel like I have always known you. I believe their are people in our lives that we know and understand before we ever meet them and you are that person for me. I dont believe that you always understand me but, I know without hesitation that you know my motives and my soul. Anytime someone has talked about having a soul mate your name and face pop into my head. I believe without a doubt that you were placed on this earth to be my best friend. I know with certainty that you will remain my best friend for as long as I live. I also believe that the connection we share could never be separated by death. I believe I will always love you and be with you whether I am here on earth or in heaven. I without a doubt will never be the same person I was before you touched my life! You have touched my soul and will live there forever. You are more than a friend to me! You are the reason I am who I am today. On certain days I wake up to see you, talk to you and to make sure that you are ok. You have been my strength and you have allowed me to be weak! You have seen me in my darkest hour and you have shared in my brightest days. You love me with out conditions and no one in my life has ever done that. You and I share a depth of sorrow that no one understands but us. I believe it was or sorrows and our brokeness that lead us to become friends so quickly and I think that we remain friends because we have shed a bit of hope into each other darkness! I love you beyond any words that have ever been written and I hope that no matter what our lives bring us that you will never for one second question my love or my loyalty for you. You saved me in so many ways. You continue to amaze me with your selflessness and your courage. You are without a doubt my soul sister! I love you!
Love, T
Okay so this one is super hard. I have never really felt like I had a honest to God true best friend except my Momma and now Brandon. I do have VERY close and good friends, and have felt that I have had best friends over time, but they seem to come and go. But I do have to say I feel like I am in the start of an amazing BEST friend relationship with Tdazzle! =)
ReplyDeleteSo this one is going to go out to You T! Momma and Brandon are up there, but they have other days in this challenge I need to give to them.
It is kind of funny to me to look back and see just a little over a year ago where this friendship started. You were a random Bikini bootcamp instuctor that I had never seen nor met before. When I first found out who you were dating and living with, I was like "Hello, why didn't I know of her before?"
I remember at some point of bikini bootcamp thinking "OMG this woman is tough and she might just kill me" and other times feeling embarrassed and that I let you down when I couldnt do the workout I needed to (from rolling my ankle on a drunk 21st bday LOL) I wish back then I would have known you like I do now, I probably would have pushed myself harder and had more confidence!
Over the course of the friendship it has been interesting. I feel at first we probably didnt think it would become what it has now. I feel we were both WAY different people just over a year ago then we are now, and in our time of building our friendship we have helped each other grow.
I believe now that we have taken the time to get to now one another, it was meant to be for us to meet and become Best friends!
You are truely my soul sista! Even though I dont see you or get to hang out with you as much as I would like, that connection we have still keeps it going. Whether we talk everyday, on the phone, IM, or not at all, I still feel the fullness inside that tells me "You've got a best friend!"
You have inspired me with you knowledge, wisdom, strength through hardships, and you intrigue me to learn more about you. I look up to you and admire your will to keep going no matter what life throws at you, always with a smile on your face! I can only hope that I can become half the woman you are. You remind me so much of my own Momma, I think is why I cling to you so much.
You have taught me a lot about self-respect, love and confidence in myself. You've been there simply to just let me vent and release anger I have inside (to keep from letting it out on the person it is directed towards) You truley are an amazing Woman, Mom, & Friend! I am blessed to have you in my life and can't wait for the MANY years to come! =)
Love you always! T&A all the way! <3
You are the sweetest. I am so honored that you think of me as a best friend and promise to try and live up to what you deserve. I may stumble and fall at times because I am only human but, I hope you know that you are precious to me and that I would do anything, be anywhere and hurt anyone to protect you or the ones you love. WE def have a strong bond and hopefully thru the years life will bring us closer. I know for a fact that having ONE quality friend in your life beats the hell out of having many "fake" friends. I cherish you from the bottom of my heart. I love you to pieces and I thank you for seeing all those wonderful qualities in me even when I dont. Your the best of the best!
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